RFR: 8345052: Harden StampedLock

[Doug Lea]

This applies the same kinds of recovery on OOME (by spinning) and JVM Exceptions (by cancelling) seen in AQS.

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Commit messages:
 - Add fall-back on OOME, cancel on JVM exceptions

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/22396/files
  Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=22396&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8345052
  Stats: 257 lines in 2 files changed: 207 ins; 7 del; 43 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/22396.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/22396/head:pull/22396

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/22396