RFR: 8306992: [JVMCI] mitigate more against JVMCI related OOME causing VM to exit

[Doug Simon]

This PR makes the following changes to mitigate against an OOME or other recoverable error in JVMCI from causing the VM to exit:
* Tracks upcalls into libjvmci or creation of libjvmci.
* If 10% or more of these calls fail with an uncaught exception, then JVMCI compilation is disabled (i.e. future compilations fall back to Tier 1).

When JVMCI compilation is disabled, a warning is emitted:

[0.064s][warning][jit,compilation] JVMCI compiler disabled after 11 of 15 upcalls had errors (Last error: "uncaught exception in call_HotSpotJVMCIRuntime_compileMethod"). Use -Xlog:jit+compilation for more detail.


With `-Xlog:jit+compilation`, the extra detail shown is:

[0.182s][info][jit,compilation] uncaught exception in call_HotSpotJVMCIRuntime_compileMethod while compiling java.util.stream.StreamOpFlag.fromCharacteristics(Ljava/util/Spliterator;)I
Exception in thread "JVMCI-native CompilerThread0": java.lang.InternalError
java.lang.InternalError: aborting compilation of HotSpotMethod<Object.<init>()>
	at jdk.internal.vm.ci at 20.0.2-internal/jdk.vm.ci.hotspot.HotSpotJVMCIRuntime.compileMethod(HotSpotJVMCIRuntime.java:923)


Note that the errors treated by the changes in the PR are expected to be exceedingly rare. For example, an OOME while starting a libgraal isolate or initializing the JVMCI compiler. Exceptions thrown during compilation are already handled by the Graal [CompilationWrapper](https://github.com/oracle/graal/blob/431ecf7d26f56cee49708854fe0e89b05514492b/compiler/src/jdk.internal.vm.compiler/src/org/graalvm/compiler/core/CompilationWrapper.java#L65).

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Commit messages:
 - make JMCI more robust in low resource conditions

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/13905/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=13905&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8306992
  Stats: 175 lines in 7 files changed: 112 ins; 18 del; 45 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/13905.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/13905/head:pull/13905

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/13905