RFR: JDK-8293313: NMT: Rework MallocLimit

[Thomas Stuefe]

Rework NMT `MallocLimit` to make it more useful for native OOM analysis. Also remove `MallocMaxTestWords`, which had been mostly redundant with NMT (for background, see JDK-8293292).


### Background

Some months ago we had [JDK-8291919](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8291919), a compiler regression that caused compiler arenas to grow boundlessly. Process was usually OOM-killed before we could take a look, so this was difficult to analyze.

To improve analysis options, we added NMT *malloc limits* with [JDK-8291878](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8291878). Malloc limits let us set one or multiple limits to malloc load. Surpassing a limit causes the VM to stop with a fatal error in the allocation function, giving us a hs-err file and a core right at the point that (probably) causes the leak. This makes error analysis a lot simpler, and is also valuable for regression-testing footprint usage.

Some people wished for a way to not end with a fatal error but to mimic a native OOM (causing os::malloc to return NULL). This would allow us to test resilience in the face of native OOMs, among other things.

### Patch

- Expands the `MallocLimit` option syntax, allowing for an "oom mode" that mimics an oom:



Global form:
-XX:MallocLimit=<size>[:<mode>]
Category-specific form:
-XX:MallocLimit=<category>:<size>[:<mode>][,<category>:<size>[:<mode>] ...]
Examples:
-XX:MallocLimit=3g
-XX:MallocLimit=3g:oom
-XX:MallocLimit=compiler:200m:oom


- moves parsing of `-XX:MallocLimit` out of arguments.cpp into `mallocLimit.hpp/cpp`, and rewrites it.

- changes when limits are checked. Before, the limits were checked *after* the allocation that caused the threshold overflow. Now we check beforehand.

- removes `MallocMaxTestWords`, replacing its uses with `MallocLimit`

- adds new gtests and new jtreg tests

- removes a bunch of jtreg tests which are now better served by the new gtests.

- gives us more precise error messages upon reaching a limit. For example:

before:

#  fatal error: MallocLimit: category "Compiler" reached limit (size: 20997680, limit: 20971520)


now:

#  fatal error: MallocLimit: reached category "Compiler" limit (triggering allocation size: 1920B, allocated so far: 20505K, limit: 20480K)

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Commit messages:
 - MallocLimit

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/11371/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=11371&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8293313
  Stats: 992 lines in 21 files changed: 639 ins; 266 del; 87 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/11371.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk pull/11371/head:pull/11371

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/11371