[jdk21] RFR: 8309140: ResourceHashtable failed "assert(~(_allocation_t[0] | allocation_mask) == (uintptr_t)this) failed: lost resource object"

[Coleen Phillimore]

This is a clean backport of JDK-[8309140](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8309140)

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Commit messages:
 - Backport b6c789faad63f18e17ee7e5cefd024b3776fd469

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21/pull/102/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk21&pr=102&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8309140
  Stats: 99 lines in 11 files changed: 41 ins; 1 del; 57 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21/pull/102.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21.git pull/102/head:pull/102

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21/pull/102