RFR: 8343344: Windows attach logic failed to handle a failed open on a pipe

[Alex Menkov]

The fix adds correct handling of "could not open pipe" errors in attach listener instead of assert which causes target VM crash.

testing: tier1,tier2,hs-tier5-svc

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Commit messages:
 - fix

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888/files
  Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=21888&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8343344
  Stats: 13 lines in 1 file changed: 5 ins; 0 del; 8 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/21888/head:pull/21888

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888