RFR: 8343344: Windows attach logic failed to handle a failed open on a pipe [v2]

[Alex Menkov]

> The fix adds correct handling of "could not open pipe" errors in attach listener instead of assert which causes target VM crash.
> 
> testing: tier1,tier2,hs-tier5-svc

Alex Menkov has updated the pull request incrementally with one additional commit since the last revision:

  feedback

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888/files/e535bfcd..ec14cd51

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=21888&range=01
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=21888&range=00-01

  Stats: 16 lines in 2 files changed: 9 ins; 0 del; 7 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/21888/head:pull/21888

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/21888