[jdk17u] RFR: 8285515: (dc) DatagramChannel.disconnect fails with "Invalid argument" on macOS 12.4

[Goetz Lindenmaier]

I backport this for parity with 17.0.4-oracle.

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Commit messages:
 - Backport 269eae61894b6bd0a7512045a369b53df747f6e5

Changes: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jdk17u/pull/346/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.java.net/?repo=jdk17u&pr=346&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8285515
  Stats: 27 lines in 2 files changed: 16 ins; 8 del; 3 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jdk17u/pull/346.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.java.net/jdk17u pull/346/head:pull/346

PR: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jdk17u/pull/346