[jdk17u-dev] RFR: 8285093: Introduce UTIL_ARG_WITH

[Ben Taylor]

Backporting to make [JDK-8293550](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8293550) clean.

This change is independent of #914 but both are required for [JDK-8293550](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8293550).

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Depends on: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk17u-dev/pull/914

Commit messages:
 - Backport 94afb366b2ec76669e1aac38dbadc223ccafda3d

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk17u-dev/pull/915/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk17u-dev&pr=915&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8285093
  Stats: 381 lines in 2 files changed: 349 ins; 5 del; 27 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk17u-dev/pull/915.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk17u-dev pull/915/head:pull/915

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk17u-dev/pull/915