[jdk21u-dev] RFR: 8240343: JDI stopListening/stoplis001 "FAILED: listening is successfully stopped without starting listening"

[Amos Shi]

Backport of [JDK-8240343](https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8240343)

Testing
- Local: Test passed on `MacOS 14.6.1` on Apple M1 Max
  - Passed: `vmTestbase/nsk/jdi/ListeningConnector/stopListening/stoplis001/TestDescription.java`
- Pipeline: 
- Testing Machine:

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Commit messages:
 - Backport 28b201955907e145f208d756b607ab545a83b2d3

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/944/files
  Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk21u-dev&pr=944&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8240343
  Stats: 34 lines in 3 files changed: 6 ins; 28 del; 0 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/944.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev.git pull/944/head:pull/944

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/944