[jdk21u-dev] RFR: 8332631: Update nsk.share.jpda.BindServer to don't use finalization

[Goetz Lindenmaier]

I backport this to keep the 21 u tests up to date.

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Commit messages:
 - Backport b3b33667ad3bdb7be868fb165a1ea53054947cd0

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/1752/files
  Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk21u-dev&pr=1752&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8332631
  Stats: 98 lines in 1 file changed: 18 ins; 54 del; 26 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/1752.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev.git pull/1752/head:pull/1752

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk21u-dev/pull/1752