[jdk8u-dev] RFR: 8282600: SSLSocketImpl should not use user_canceled workaround when not necessary

[Zdenek Zambersky]

Backport from [jdk11u-dev](https://github.com/openjdk/jdk11u-dev/commit/e80528bf2bd1c87fc1394dd32015281ac6652363#commitcomment-104263811) fixing SSLSocket, not to use workaround with user_canceled alert for TLS 1.3 close, when not necessary, as it causes problems with gnutls client.

Testing:
[jdk_security](https://github.com/zzambers/jdk-tester/actions/runs/4408247017/jobs/7723001910) OK (no regressions to [master](https://github.com/zzambers/jdk-tester/actions/runs/4407115132/jobs/7720330395)).

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Commit messages:
 - Backport e80528bf2bd1c87fc1394dd32015281ac6652363

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk8u-dev/pull/284/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk8u-dev&pr=284&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8282600
  Stats: 6 lines in 1 file changed: 4 ins; 0 del; 2 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk8u-dev/pull/284.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk8u-dev pull/284/head:pull/284

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk8u-dev/pull/284