RFR: 7903136: Don't require jdk18_home to be set in jextract gradle build [v3]

[Jorn Vernee]

> Drop the requirement to set `jdk18_home` in the gradle build, and rely instead on `JAVA_HOME` being set to JDK 18.
> 
> I've also updated the build instructions. The `-Pjtreg_home` flag seems to have been dropped by accident from the test command. I've re-added it. Also renamed `libclang_dir` -> `llvm_dir` which was missed in an earlier change.

Jorn Vernee has updated the pull request incrementally with three additional commits since the last revision:

 - Phrasing 2
 - Phrasing
 - Drop java.home fallback + update readme

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jextract/pull/9/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jextract/pull/9/files/d6434bd7..9563246c

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.java.net/?repo=jextract&pr=9&range=02
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.java.net/?repo=jextract&pr=9&range=01-02

  Stats: 9 lines in 2 files changed: 0 ins; 7 del; 2 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jextract/pull/9.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.java.net/jextract pull/9/head:pull/9

PR: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jextract/pull/9