RFR: 8231601: Update CONTRIBUTING.md to clarify process for contributing features plus Skara changes [v5]

[Kevin Rushforth]

> This PR updates the `CONTRIBUTING.md` guide to address the following:
> 
> 1. Clarify the process for adding new features / API changes, specifically that they must be discussed on the mailing list as the first step.
> 2. Add a link to the mailing list in the section regarding contributing bug fixes.
> 3. Remove the text about cross-linking the PR and JBS issue, and add a note that the Skara tooling takes care of this
> 4. Remove the section about manually resolving the JBS issue, and add a note that the Skara bot automatically does this when the PR is integrated.
> 5. Suggest the use of the "/reviewers 2" and "/csr" commands when appropriate
> 6. Update the note regarding which JDK(s) to use.

Kevin Rushforth has updated the pull request incrementally with one additional commit since the last revision:

  Minor updates to address pending review comments that I did last year, but forgot to push

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jfx/pull/303/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jfx/pull/303/files/1c41e9c6..47f51a3c

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.java.net/?repo=jfx&pr=303&range=04
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.java.net/?repo=jfx&pr=303&range=03-04

  Stats: 2 lines in 1 file changed: 0 ins; 0 del; 2 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jfx/pull/303.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.java.net/jfx pull/303/head:pull/303

PR: https://git.openjdk.java.net/jfx/pull/303