[jfx17u] RFR: 8310638: Filtering a TableView with a large number of items freezes the UI

[Jose Pereda]

Almost clean backport of 8310638: Filtering a TableView with a large number of items freezes the UI
Reviewed-by: kcr, angorya

There was a small conflict in VirtualFlowTest due to JDK-8297414:

-        list = new ArrayLinkedListShim<CellStub>();
+        list = new ArrayLinkedListShim<>();

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Commit messages:
 - 8310638: Filtering a TableView with a large number of items freezes the UI

Changes: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx17u/pull/160/files
 Webrev: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jfx17u&pr=160&range=00
  Issue: https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8310638
  Stats: 49 lines in 3 files changed: 47 ins; 0 del; 2 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx17u/pull/160.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jfx17u.git pull/160/head:pull/160

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx17u/pull/160