RFR: 8319779: SystemMenu: memory leak due to listener never being removed [v18]

[Johan Vos]

> A listener was added but never removed.
> This patch removes the listener when the menu it links to is cleared. Fix for https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8319779

Johan Vos has updated the pull request incrementally with two additional commits since the last revision:

 - process more reviewer comments
 - Process reviewer comments

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx/pull/1283/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx/pull/1283/files/5c733838..328ad6db

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jfx&pr=1283&range=17
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jfx&pr=1283&range=16-17

  Stats: 3 lines in 2 files changed: 0 ins; 0 del; 3 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx/pull/1283.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jfx.git pull/1283/head:pull/1283

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jfx/pull/1283