RFR: 8337563: NMT: rename MEMFLAGS to MemTag [v9]

[Gerard Ziemski]

> Please review this cleanup, where we rename `MEMFLAGS` to `MemTag`.
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> `MEMFLAGS` implies that we can use more than one at the same time, but those are exclusive values, so `MemTag` is a more suitable name.
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> This fix also includes a cleanup of all the related function/template parameter names and local variable names.
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> Testing is pending...
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> Note: there is more history in old closed PRs [https://github.com/openjdk/jdk/pull/20497](https://github.com/openjdk/jdk/pull/20497) and [https://github.com/openjdk/jdk/pull/20472](https://github.com/openjdk/jdk/pull/20472)

Gerard Ziemski has updated the pull request incrementally with one additional commit since the last revision:

  Afshin's feedback

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/20872/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/20872/files/4c7f181d..8e576cf1

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=20872&range=08
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=20872&range=07-08

  Stats: 26 lines in 14 files changed: 0 ins; 0 del; 26 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/20872.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/20872/head:pull/20872

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/20872