RFR: 8329733: Update the documentation in java.net.SocketOptions to direct to java.net.StandardSocketOptions [v2]

[Jaikiran Pai]

> Can I please get a review of this doc-only change which proposes to clean up the documentation of `java.net.SocketOptions` interface?
> 
> As noted in https://bugs.openjdk.org/browse/JDK-8329733, the existing documentation in this legacy interface isn't accurate. The commit in this PR, updates the documentation on several of the fields to point to the newer java.net.StandardSocketOptions class. While at it, I also did a general update of this documentation to use snippets and also reword some of it to be a bit more clear.
> 
> I have run `make docs-image` on this change and the updated doc looks fine to me.

Jaikiran Pai has updated the pull request incrementally with three additional commits since the last revision:

 - "timeout value" instead of "timeout"
 - missed SO_TIMEOUT review suggestion in previous commit
 - Alan's review suggestions

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Changes:
  - all: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/18645/files
  - new: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/18645/files/2280b10f..0e6772ec

Webrevs:
 - full: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=18645&range=01
 - incr: https://webrevs.openjdk.org/?repo=jdk&pr=18645&range=00-01

  Stats: 7 lines in 1 file changed: 2 ins; 0 del; 5 mod
  Patch: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/18645.diff
  Fetch: git fetch https://git.openjdk.org/jdk.git pull/18645/head:pull/18645

PR: https://git.openjdk.org/jdk/pull/18645